1. Who eats more?
I do! I have a higher metabolism than he does, poor guy.

2. Who said "I love you" first?
Oh, he did, and he was all about it. He's so affectionate, and for a long time that drove me crazy. He wanted to give me "squishy squeezers"!!! Just hearing that made me want to throw up. He's a very nurturing kinda guy. I mean, he was a single dad of three kids when I met him!

3. Who is the morning person?
He is. And he brings me coffee in bed. And lets me sleep in more often than is reasonable.

4. Who sings better?
Me. by a long shot. Sorry, babe.

5. Who’s older?
He is, by 2 years.

6. Who’s smarter?
A very nice tie we have. I am a right brain genius, and he's a left brain genius. Right brains rule.

7. Whose temper is worse?
If it's the kids that have incited the riot, then his. If it's a couple dispute, then mine. But I like to argue, being a Taurus raised in a family of five Tauruses (and an Aries and Libra), while he hates to fight. Though he's getting better at it, which I like!

8. Who does the laundry?
If it piles up into mountain ranges, he takes it to the laundromat (remember, we don't have a dryer!). If it's at home, it's me.

9. Who does the dishes?
Muah ha ha ha ha! The TEENAGERS!!!!

10. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed?
I get the best spot, by virtue of my stubbornness.

11. Whose feet are bigger?
His.

12. Whose hair is longer?
No competition there, poor guy.

13. Who’s better with the computer?
He is a technological wizard, although I can do things with my mac that he could never do. That's the
Left brain/Right brain thing. But he is, really, by far. His brain just understands their innards.

14. Do you have pets?
Three dogs, one cat, twelve chickens, five kids.

15. Who pays the bills?
He does a much better job at that than I do. I am terrible about paying bills, so it recently became his job. YES!!!

16. Who cooks dinner?
Usually me, but sometimes the teenagers make dinner, and sometimes he does. At the potluck we went to last night, he made four butternut squash pies.

17. Who drives when you are together?
Usually he does, but we need to stop this. I am such a control freak in the car that I should just give him a break and do the driving so he can harrass me instead.

18. Who pays when you go out to dinner?
Whoever has the card. Usually he pays while I pee.

19. Who’s the most stubborn?
Who has the unbending will? Me. Who always leaves their clothes/papers/books/shit laying around no matter how much I ask? Him.

20. Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
If you haven't noticed the pattern, the truth is he's generally much nicer than me. Besides, I'm so rarely wrong!

21. Whose family do you see more?
That's probably about a tie, since his parents live nearby, and I have three siblings that live nearby.

22. Who named your pets?
We just got our first puppy together, and his naming was a joint brainstorming session, though he came up with the final name.

23. Who kissed who first?
God, he took forever to kiss me. I think he was scared of me.

24. Who asked who out?
He asked me out and then failed to follow up on it! He was very timid at first, which I can understand. I mean, he was raising three kids by himself and had really given up on the idea of having a partner in that venture.

25. So, who gets spoiled more?
Totally and completely me.

26. Who’s more sensitive?
I've definitely got the tougher skin, but I'm by no means insensitive.

27. Who’s taller?
He is, but we're both in the same range for our genders, which is nice.

28. Who has more friends?
We both are blessed with many good friends.

29. Who has more siblings?
I have four bonafide siblings, He is an only child with a much older sister and two brothers by his mother, and then four brothers by his father who really aren't a part of his life at all. I definitely got the better sibling package, although his sister is great.

30. Who wears the pants in the relationship?
Me.